We are a little over halfway through 2012. You might look at the calendar and say to yourself "It is ALREADY halfway over?" Well I will look at you and ask "How is it only July!?"
Since late 2011, I have known that 2012 for me would be all about the transition from the title of boyfriend, to fiance, then to husband. There are not many more happy yet hectic times in a man's life.
On April 12th, I asked my fiance Sara, to marry me, she said yes and made me the happiest man in the world. Not long after that came, the planning.
The most important aspect of planning a wedding is knowing who to give your many detailed aspects of business too. Even before I proposed, you come in contact with many different vendors who believe they deserve your business. However, wedding being a long complicated process, it is their job to make sure that they make themselves memorable.
Thusfar, from all of the vendors I have encountered, from the jeweler I bought the ring from, to the photographer who took our engagement photos, all I have received are business cards. Great for getting me their contact information, but not very effective in making themselves memorable.
Corporations though, have gotten it a little bit more. At least Bed Bath and Beyond and Macy's gave us non woven tote bag's with paperwork and catalogs in it when we registered. However, it is the small businesses that should be caring about this more!
A jeweler or a florist's main focus may be on retail and walk-in business, they may love to get wedding business but it may not be their main priority. For this reason, they are not doing everything they can to hold on to prospects who meet them today, but may not need them for 3-6 months. When I bought my engagement ring, why not give out say a customized padfolio to remember him by? I will need a jeweler for wedding bands down the road, and a padfolio would be useful throughout the wedding process, certainly the profit would outweigh the cost.
This week, my fiance and I will be attending our first wedding fair, I would think we should be leaving with an array of customized products, if not just to separate themselves from their competitors at the show.
It seems to me though, any vendors who do value the business of the engaged and soon to be wed, should be focused on how to be as memorable as possible.